Saturday, November 01, 2008

Simon Actually Speaks....

Hey 'erbody. It's me - Simon. Yes, San does all the hard work keeping this blog up to date, and I must say she does a great job, doesn't she?

Well, I can't sleep and I've been thinking a lot about my precious little family and thought I'd share with you, my friends, some of my feelings. First and foremost I am in awe at what San is able to accomplish each and every day. Motherhood is a full time job, and she has been putting in quite a bit of overtime lately. Any man who has a stay at home mom/wife needs to spend a week in her shoes and he'll be begging to get back to his cushy office and business lunch appointments.

San takes time each and every day to ensure Sofi gets physical fitness, reading time, story time, and all sorts of other development things that I wouldn't have a clue even where to start. I'm so lucky because when I get home from work Sofi has had it with her mom cleaning her nose, brushing her hair, and all the other stuff baby don't like that much..... well, when I get home as soon as she hears my voice she stops everything she's doing and reaches her arms out for me to pick her up. It makes me want to cry every time. Of course I know why she likes to spend time with me so much, it's because all I do is play with her. We do "roll around the floor", jump on the bed, jump off the couch where I catch her. We also do horsey back riding. she loves every bit of it and giggles so much. I know San is relieved because entertaining a child all day must be exhausting.

I had another really funky experience but I'll share it nonetheless. I was so proud of Sofi because she had done a big 'ole grown up poop. I told San it looked like play-doe and that I made her a toy out of it.... (of course I didn't do that - gross). But, I was so excited because this is a sign of Sofi's maturing. Gosh I love her so much.

Speaking of love , and with this I'll close. I'm sure all other dad's experience this too, but I am SO IN LOVE with my precious San. She's more beautiful to me than ever. She's so inteligent and righteous. She (tries) to keep me on the straight and narrow. She's the perfect mother and wife. (and in great shape too! :-) When I asked her to marry me, I did it out of faith and romantic love, but with each year I see Heavenly Father's Divine direction. He introduced us. He brought us together to build up a righteous family unto Him. He also knew that I'd be a perfect fit for her family. Oh how I love ALL of them. I hope not to hurt any feelings for leaving anyone out, but I do want to mention specifically how much I love Earling, Samara, Erica, and DeeDee. Earl is my little brother that I've always wanted, and he's way cool. Heavenly Father also brought us together for us to be happy. I couldn't be happier with any other human on the face of the earth. San is my best friend and wife. Her high standards and modesty are one of the very reasons I chose her to be my wife. Such values as taught in Young Women are so incredibly important and will lead to greater happiness in this life and the next.

I hope you all don't mind my gushing over my love for San. I just can't find enough ways to adequately show her. She knows it already, but I'm an over expressive person who loves to express his feelings.

Finally in closing, let me thank all of you for being such wonderful friends and family. San and I cherish our relationships and look forward to seeing you as soon as possible.

Lovingly,
Simon

5 comments:

Jennifer said...

How sweet Simon! What a wonderful post and tribute to San.

Mimi said...

Simon,

You always were such a sweet soul. I loved reading your feelings for San. Thank you for sharing. I love to read about your little family. Just so much love for one another. You will be amazed at how much that love continues to grow as time goes on. I didn't think that I could love Kelly more than when I married him... boy was I wrong! As we've gone thru trials together, our love has grown even stronger with each one. And I thought that I couldn't really love my children anymore than I did when they were born but again, I was wrong! It just grows and grows with each day. Enjoy your Journey... it only gets BETTER!
Mimi

Fuku_chan said...

Saimon, that is wonderful. I am so happy for all of you that you guys are happy. I mean child changes our lives for sure. Surely, mine did. My little H is a my favorite young boy whom I cannot explain how much I love him. Well, as always, if you every will be Ut, make sure to let me know. We love to see your beautiful family.

tessa said...

San, I think he is a keeper:)

The Grays: said...

Mimi:
You are so right about love growing. I didn't even know such tender selfless love existed.
Having Sofi has only made me more madly in love wtih San.
Probably seems gushy to some, but we covenanted when we married to focus our lives on why we
love each other and not dwell on the insignificant. Communication is the key..... and speaking
of communication, than you so much for staying in touch so diligently.
I'm not too good about it, but I promise to do better.

Lots of Love,
Simon